'That's a big age gap': Wholesome Discussion On What Dating an Older Woman is Like

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    Font - Posted by u/BadnUnknown 4 days ago Those of you who dated older women, how was the experience?
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    Font - Aaleron 3 days ago When I was 30(M) I dated a 42yo(F). It was pretty great. She was grounded, successful, easy going, and she knew what she wanted and didn't want from life. Eventually, she decided we weren't working out as a couple, so she made me breakfast, broke up with me very matter of factly, took me to bed one last time, and said goodbye. It was the best breakup I've ever had. Reply Share 23.6k
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    Font - PAzRockswith Rocks 3 days ago I wish that was the standard for how a relationship ends. Very impressive and good closure. Very mature of both of you. Reply Share 6.7k Aaleron 3 days ago Honestly, given how good the breakup was, I kind of wish we'd have been a better match. 3.6k Reply Share
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    Font - Jon__Snuh 3 days ago I'm 33 and I just started seeing some one who is 10 years older than me. It's pretty awesome so far, she knows what she wants and tells me what she means. Plus the sex is outstanding. 5.0k Reply Share Golee 3 days ago I'm 43 so you give me hope lol ↑ 1.1k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - longbeachfelixbk. 3 days ago Girfriend was 19 years older than me. I was 30 when we met, she was 49. Lived together for over 10 years. she had been divorced twice and had two teenage girls, I became like a step dad. I loved her (and her kids) and wanted to stay together forever. She couldn't ever get comfortable with the age
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    Font - difference. Always worried i would leave her for younger woman or that I would want kids. No amount of assurance could convince her I was serious about staying together. Relationship ended 5 years ago. I miss her and haven't had any interest in meeting someone new. 9.8k Reply Share
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    Font - square_tomatoes 3 days ago I was 21, she was 28. She had an established career, had had enough past relationships to know what she did/didn't want, and was very direct about it, didn't play any of the bull hit mind games I was used to dealing with. She didn't
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    Font - care that I was a broke college student, she made plenty of money to take care of herself, we were both just looking to have some fun. Ended up realizing we really liked each others company, one thing led to another, and ~10 years later we're still happily married. Reply Share 7.3k
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    Font - earlylight36 3 days ago She was 14 years older (26/40). One of the best relationships I've had. We split up because we couldn't come to a consensus on if/what a family was in the cards. 3.0k ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - cruiskeen 3 days ago My wife was 15 years older than I am. We were together 40 years till she did of cancer. It was a good relationship and marriage. I know it would not work for everyone but we were happy. 11.0k Reply Share
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    Font - ineffablesights. 3 days ago Sorry for your loss. I'm in a 12 year gap and that is our biggest concern, is that she'll pass earlier than me. It took a lot of reassurance from me to make her realize that I just enjoy her presence so much. 3.0k Reply Share
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    Font - _TadStrange 3 days ago I am marrying a person 11 years older than I am. She is emotionally and intellectually mature. Doesn't play emotional games like a lot of people around my age. Very down to earth and straightforward. Very realistic when it comes to expectations. Very nurturing. Overall, dating older women is a plus ↑ 692 ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - Big-Routine222 · 3 days ago I was 22, she was 44. We watched Dazed and Confused, had very intimate s x. Then the next day she sent me off with a fresh breakfast and made some strawberry jam granola bars for me for the gym. 10/10, would recommend. It helped that she and I were both easy going and she was 8 months out of a divorce and I think also wanted something just casual and fun. Reply Share 2.1k 2.1k
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    Font - boegan 3 days ago She was 6 years older than me. I was 25, she was 31. No games, she had her life together. We were engaged a few moths later and we just celebrated our 17th anniversary a few weeks ago....worked out pretty well. Reply Share 3.0k
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    Font - Seamus Maximus88 3 days ago I'm 35 and my wife is 48 and we couldn't be happier. She has children from previous relationships of 30,26 and 22 so I was worried they would find it weird at first, but they've been amazing. Been together 8 years and married 2 years and now I'm a grandad of 3 as all three kids have had their own kids. I was never too bothered about raising kids of my own so I feel like I've got this ready made family which is great.
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    Font - Some people may find it strange, but I feel like we've got everything in life and happiness is way more important than following social norms. 216 Reply Share
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    Font - someoldman63 - 3 days ago When I was 20 I dated a 40 year old woman. Lasted about 8 weeks and it was a beautiful relationship. Mutual separation do to distance and me being a man whore. Reply Share 843 Pale-Repotter. 3 days ago the last line threw me off good on you for being honest! ↑ 277 ↓ Reply Share
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    Font - BeenThruIt 3 days ago Married one. 13/14 years older than me. Been married for nearly 30 years and I still ain't ready to trade her in for a newer model. 665 Reply Share
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    Font - mpellman. 3 days ago When I was 25 (m) I met a girl who was 10 years older than me and was the hottest woman I'd laid eyes on. But I was young, foolish, not her type even though we ran in the same circles of friends. Flash
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    Font - forward 14 years, something clicked while hanging with a large group of friends and we went on an actual "date". Seems I had grown up quite a bit and had much more to offer. Now we are happily married, raising a 14 year old. She is 58, I'm 48. It works just fine. Reply Share 304

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